IF YOU WANT to know the definition of fate, I just about experienced it this morning, while reading Middlesex by Jeffrey Eugenides. Cal/Calliope, the girl who's a boy, runs away from home and starts hitchhiking to get to the good ol' Golden State. When people ask where she's headed, she tells them that she's going to Stanford! WOW! That's amazing! I've never been more in awe of the workings of fate! Ever! That's my story for today. As for the rest of you, find your own "coincidences" and do share. It's always a good time to realize that ... Do you ever start off a sentence and not really know where you're going with it? Same here.